The pages that follow combine insight and method to help you achieve your goals as a male who wants to succeed with women. Success may mean winning the girl of your dreams for a permanent relation. It could mean becoming more proficient at meeting women, or at dating and getting to know them. You may want to better understand what a relation involves psychologically. Whatever your goals are, my objective is to stir in you those feelings and attitudes that will create your success. I also give you a great deal of practical information to help you, especially in making a first connection. Insight helps, so does action. You need both and I try to bring you to both. Nothing is more effective in life than informed action.
Two streams meet to create this book. Twenty years of work in psychiatric research contribute deep insights into the makeup of women. Fifteen years of involvement with the single lifestyle industry provides intimate knowledge of the practical problems facing the single male. The fusion of these approaches, one grounded in theory and the other in practice, results in a reliable guide for the single male who wishes to take action and to be confident of his outcome.
The material in this book has worked remarkably well for me. It has worked so well that many men have asked me to write a book about how to do it. I took up their suggestion remembering how I once wished for more from the world of the single male. If you live in that world and want to draw its rewards then this book is for you. Its spirit and its practical advice will help you to succeed.
