Get Smart! About Modern Romantic Relationships Your Personal Guide to Finding Right and Real Love
By Michelle L. Casto
Chapter One (continued): Get Smart! Decision Making
Active Reflection
The best way to do this is to be clear on what you are looking for in a relationship, and then you can allow your intuitive nature to take over. The key is to believe that your higher spirit sees what is best for you. Indeed, your spirit is trying to send you messages, but you must learn to open up and receive the information in order for it to make a difference in your life. Once you have learned to have faith in this process, your heart and mind will function together more effectively and in harmony.
Confused people are easy to spot. They tend to change their minds on a daily basis. It only stands to reason that if you are confused, you will not be making decisions with clarity and focus.
If you are like most people, you prefer one faculty to the other. People tend to use the one they are most comfortable with, but sometimes it is necessary to look at the situation through your "weaker" one. This will help you change your perspective so that you can view the picture more clearly.
You are Head Strong if you typically:
- Over analyze people, things, and situations
- Rationalize your behavior to yourself and to others
- Consider yourself first in situations
- Prefer thinking over feelings
- Squelch or ignore feelings of intuition when making decisions
- Hide your emotions
- Like to plan ahead
- Like to be in control
- Use the word NO a lot
You are Heart Strong if you typically:
- Are extremely sensitive and emotional
- Feel things in the pit of your stomach
- Consider others first in situations
- Prefer feeling over thinking
- Ignore thoughts contrary to your feelings when making decisions
- Show your emotions
- Like to go with the flow
- Like to make others feel good
- Use the word YES a lot
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