Male Tunnel Vision, Why is he so distracted?

Mixed Messages...When your partner wants to be together but isn't ready for a relationship.

The Rubber Band Man - Is he taking a time out or is this a sign about your future?

Choose a Lifemate … Don’t Wait for a Soulmate

Winning at the Dating Game

The Miracle of Love

The Soulmate Solution

LOOKING FOR MR. (OR MISS) RIGHT?

Find Your Match

Dating and the Pursuit of Happiness

10,000 Ways to Say I Love You

How To Really Love The One You’re With

Introduction

This is not your typical self-help book. You will not come away with the answers about love. Because as you probably have already figured out, there are no easy answers to some of life’s harder questions, such as “How do I attract and find the right person?” However, I can assure you that you will have quite a few revelations about your own behavior and patterns. What you do with that information is entirely up to you!

I’m not going to give you unfounded, free advice on how to live your life. Rather, Get Smart! About Modern Romantic Relationships is designed to help empower and educate you to find your own inner truth. This book will teach you how to make smart decisions by knowing yourself, what kind of Life Mate you desire, and how to get the kind of love you deserve. I encourage you to become actively involved in your own learning process by completing the journal assignments and applying the principles in Get Smart! to your unique situation.

I also encourage you to use this LearningBook as your personal guide, a resource that you can refer to again, if needed. Using this book in conjunction with the Get Smart! Journal or your own journal will enable you to make decisions the ‘smart’ way. Reading, reflecting, and writing will provide a framework from which to bring about positive changes in your love life. Getting Smart! means becoming aware of how you think and feel about love, and changing your thoughts and feelings to make them more realistic. This will turn around your not-so-smart love habits, and then you will be able to make smarter decisions – which will naturally draw your true Life Mate to you.